Wow! What a weird couple of days. A friend of mine commented on teaching her children what a valid Mass consists of. I could not believe some of the comments. She is, apparently, a judgemental, heartless, narrow-minded pharisee. Well, if she is, I am worse. I not only agree with every thing she said but I, too, am teaching my kids to approach the Eucharist, and the Mass, with reverence. I am worse because I am taking over the First Communion/First Reconciliation class next year...woo ha ha ha ha. I may be teaching your kids...gulp...reverence.
I started out to comment on a grievous incident that happened at Church but I could not get onto "Blogger" this morning. So, I'll get to my diatribe on altar girls now...Altar girls are wrong. Yes, it's my opinion. However, it is an opinion shared by many--even women--in the Church.
I know, I know, for some unknown reason the American branch of the Church decided that being an altar boy had nothing to do with the call to the priesthood. I can give you several reasons why those liberal bishops and their feminazi friends are wrong--the altar girl in line behind me yesterday at our monthly Knights of Columbus breakfast. Her dad and a couple of other (male nonetheless) parishioners told her how "great" she looked serving at the altar and that she would make a great priest. "Too bad the Church doesn't have women priests." "What churches do again?" "Presbyterian?" "Episcopalian?" This in a CATHOLIC Church????!!!!
But, no, serving at the altar has no bearing on the call to priesthood, right? The lady in front of me thanked the girl 'priest' behind me for serving for her son, who doesn't want to serve anymore. She said, "It must be a [high school] junior thing." NO!! It is a GIRL thing. Boys simply do not want to do something once it becomes a girl thing. Why don't you see many boys named Laurie, or Kim, or Jamey anymore? Because they are now girl names. BTW, you do know that Bambi was a stag, right??? Boys do not want to serve any more once it becomes a girls' job. Teenage boys either don't want to do a girl's job or they become attracted to the teenage girls serving at the altar with them. Either way, the Church loses.
Fr. T. came to our church 2 Sundays ago. He gave us a message about giving our sons to God. His church closed its doors permanently this past Sunday because of the lack of priests in this diocese. The biggest obstacle to the call to the priesthood is the parents, he said. They want grand kids, not priests in the family. Fr. T. said he has baptized over 140 kids. Is that enough grand kids??? I would say so. Give your sons to God and let them, not your daughters, serve at the altar. Let them experience altar serving as a boy and as a boy's job. That way they get a tiny glimpse of what the life of a priest is like. There are alternatives for girls and women to serve the Church. After all, Mary did not preach the Gospel the same way as John. However, who has the higher place of honor? [Hint: The Mother of God, AKA the Queen of Heaven]
After writing this far, I did read this which contained some of the very things I just stated.
"The 1994 letter [from the Congregation for Divine Worship and the Sacraments] states: "It will always be very appropriate to follow the noble tradition of having boys serve at the altar. As is well known, this has led to a reassuring development of priestly vocations. Thus the obligation to support such groups of altar boys will always continue."
and:
"Therefore the Holy See's recommendation is to retain as far as possible the custom of having only boys as servers. But it leaves to the bishop the choice of permitting women and girls for a good reason and to the pastor of each parish the decision as to whether to act on the bishop's permission.
"It is important not to focus this debate using political categories such as rights, equality, discrimination, etc., which only serves to fog the issue. We are dealing with the privilege of serving in an act of worship to which nobody has any inherent rights."
and:
"Among the pastoral factors to be weighed is the obvious yet often forgotten fact that boys and girls are different and require different motivational and formative methods.
"This difference means that both boys and girls usually go through a stage when they tend to avoid common activities."
"Preteen boys in particular are very attracted to activities that cater especially for them, and they tend to reject sharing activities with girls."
"They also tend to have a greater need for such structured activities than girls who are usually more mature and responsible at this stage of life.
As a result, some parishes have found that the introduction of girl servers has led to a sharp drop-off of boys offering to serve. Once the boys have left and enter the years of puberty, it is difficult to bring them back.
"Some pastors say this phenomenon is less marked where serving at Mass forms part of a wider Catholic structure, such as a school, or when siblings serve together.
"It is also true that groups of boy servers have fostered vocations to the priesthood. But to be fair, this usually happens within a broader culture of openness to a vocation in which other elements come into play, such as the example and spiritual guidance given by good priests, and family support.
"If, for example, a long-established program of boy servers has proved successful in promoting vocations or has been useful in helping boys avoid bad company and maintain the state of grace, then the good of souls obliges pastors to weigh heavily the spiritual risks involved in abandoning it."
"When girls do serve, it is probably best to aim for a mixture of boys and girls — if only to avoid giving the impression to the congregation that Catholicism is above all a female activity...."
Despite what our society wants, we need to let our boys be boys. We need to let certain activities be BOY activities. Once we lose the boys, it is difficult to bring them back. Why do people think so many of our priests today, did not become priests until later in life? I believe one problem is that we make altar service a girl's job. Boys don't want to be girls. My son didn't even want to be seen buying Dove soap for his face. It was too embarrassing. He thought it made him look girly. If he feels that way about soap, what do you think he is going to feel about being told what to do by a girl at the altar? Altar boys should be allowed to be boys and hear the call to the priesthood without distraction.
Some other articles on Altar girls can be read here, here, here, and here.
A Catholic Homeschooling mom of 5 who would like to be a witness to the world. I am passionate about my Faith, family, and homeschooling. I'm not perfect but I try to be the best person I can be.
Showing posts with label Vocations. Show all posts
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Monday, June 7, 2010
Sunday, January 11, 2009
Pray for Vocations

Today is the Feast of the Baptism of Our Lord. What a wonderful thing to celebrate today. After all, He asked His disciples to go and do likewise. "Go into the whole world and proclaim the gospel to every creature. Whoever believes and is baptized will be saved; whoever does not believe will be condemned." (Mark 16:15,16)
The Mass readings today were: Isaiah 42:1-4,6-7; Psalm 29:1-4,9-10; Acts 10:34-38
"...today let’s reflect on another dimension of Jesus’ baptism: It marked his entry into the community of those awaiting the kingdom of God. When Jesus was baptized, he joined a community of Jews who believed that repentance had the power to bring them into a new time of God’s favor and blessing. By accepting baptism, Jesus was telling his people that he was one with them, that he wanted to share in their lives, and that he wanted them to share in his life.
But Jesus didn’t just enter this community of believers; he transformed them. Through his miracles, his teachings, and the witness of his love, he raised the people’s expectations. He showed them that the new era they were awaiting was one of closeness to him. It was an era marked by the power of God active in their lives. And it was an era filled with the promise of a new heart and a new mind."
http://wau.org/meditations/current/?month=10&day=6&year=2008
Our priest used the celebration of the Baptism of Our Lord to talk not only about how Jesus showed the way to a new community of believers. Jesus also called certain men to follow in this act and on to the priesthood. Men who were to follow Him and imitate Him in the Holy Priesthood of Melchizedek of which He is the 'First' member. Let us pray that the call to the priesthood will be felt and followed by all those chosen by God. Let them say, as Jeremiah said, "Here I am, Lord, send me."
Prayer for Vocations to the Priesthood

Lord Jesus, High Priest and universal Shepherd, You have taught us to pray, saying: "Pray the Lord of the harvest to send forth laborers into His harvest" [Matt. 9: 38]. Therefore we ask You graciously to hear our supplications and raise up many generous souls who, inspired by Your example and supported by Your grace, may conceive the ardent desire to enter the ranks of Your sacred ministers in order to continue the office of Your one true priesthood.
Although Your priests live in the world as dispensers of the mysteries of God, yet their mission demands that they be not men of this world. Grant, then, that the insidious lies and vicious slanders directed against the priesthood by the malignant enemy and abetted by the world through its spirit of indifference and materialism may not dim the brilliance of the light with which they shine before men, nor lessen the profound and reverent esteem due to them. Grant that the continual promotion of religious instruction, true piety, purity of life and devotion to the highest ideals may prepare the groundwork for good vocations among youth. May the Christian family, as a nursery of pure and pious souls, become the unfailing source of good vocations, ever firmly convinced of the great honor that can redound to our Lord through some of its numerous offspring. Come to the aid of Your Church, that always and in every place she may have at her disposal the means necessary for the reception, promotion, formation and mature development of all the good vocations that may arise. For the full realization of all these things, O Jesus, Who are most zealous for the welfare [and] salvation of all, may Your graces continually descend from Heaven to move many hearts by their irresistible force: first, the silent invitation; then generous cooperation; and finally perseverance in Your holy service.
Are You not moved to compassion, O Lord, seeing the crowds like sheep without a shepherd, without anyone to break for them the bread of Your word, or to lead them to drink at the fountains of Your grace, so that they are continually in danger of becoming a prey to ravening wolves? Does it not grieve You to behold so many unplowed fields where thorns and thistles are allowed to grow in undisputed possession? Are You not saddened that many of Your gardens, once so green and productive, are now on the verge of becoming fallow and barren through neglect?
O Mary, Mother most pure, through whose compassion we have received the holiest of priests; O glorious Patriarch St. Joseph, perfect model of co-operation with the Divine call; O holy priests, who in heaven compose a choice choir about the Lamb of God: obtain for us many good vocations in order that the Lord's flock, through the support and government of vigilant shepherds, may attain to the enjoyment of the most delightful pastures of eternal happiness.
Composed by Pope Pius XII
Nov. 6, 1957
http://www.catholictradition.org/Priests/priests4-2.htm
[Revised slightly by yours truly from thees and thous to yous and yours]
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