A Catholic Homeschooling mom of 5 who would like to be a witness to the world. I am passionate about my Faith, family, and homeschooling. I'm not perfect but I try to be the best person I can be.
Saturday, March 20, 2010
"On Friendship"--An excerpt from the treatise by Cicero (106-43BC)
"To begin with, how can life be worth living,...which lacks that repose which is to be found in the mutual good will of a friend? What can be more delightful than to have someone to whom you can say everything with the same absolute confidence as to yourself? Is not prosperity robbed of half its value if you have no one to share your joy? On the other hand, misfortunes would be hard to bear if there were not some one to feel them even more acutely than yourself. In a word, other objects of ambition serve for particular ends - riches for use, power for securing homage, office for reputation, pleasure for enjoyment, health for freedom from pain and the full use of the functions of the body. But friendship embraces innumberable advantages. Turn which way you please, you will find it at hand. It is everywhere; and yet never out of place, never unwelcome. Fire and water themselves, to use a common expression, are not of more universal use than friendship. I am not now speaking of the common or modified form of it, though ever that is a source of pleasure and profit, but of the atrue and complete friendship which existed between the select few who are known to fame. Such friendship enhances prosperity, and relieves adversity of its burden by halving and sharing it."
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Friday, March 19, 2010
Change
Do you ever have a problem with change? I like adventure and I like change--normally. However, once you're over 45, change comes much too quickly. When do I get to sit and take a breath. Almost never. I am constantly exhausted, I have no time or money for my own pursuits, and I only have casual acquaintences. (Good friends you can talk to about anything, just to get it off your chest. Wish I had one or two of those; I think I would be going a little less crazy if I did have a good friend in my life.)Right now, I am gearing up for another big change in my small world. I am going to be moving from 1st grade to 2nd grade Religious Education. I am sooo looking forward to it, but I am also quite nervous. I've gotten into a comfortable routine of prayers, songs, stories, and crafts in my 1st grade class. Just about the only thing I have to do is make copies of things for Sunday. Now, I get to have the excitement of planning and anticipation for my 2nd grade class. I love to find the little extras or some little story that will make the dry material in our books come to life for the kids. My favorite part is the planning.
Thursday, February 18, 2010
Encouragement for modern times
Take heart brothers and sister. From the beginning of the Church, The Church has felt deeply the struggle against the twisting of Christ's message and the Church He left behind. I found this passage from St. Eusebius very encouraging. Note: He wrote his history just after Christianity became the approved religion in the Rome Empire.
I hope it helps others out there, too. I highly recommend Eusebius' 'History of the Church' as reading material for Lent. It makes me glad I live in modern America. Right now anyway, we can not be persecuted like Catholics were in the first 3 centuries after the Pentecost.
"But this propaganda brought...no lasting success, for Truth asserted herself, and with the march of time shone with increasing light. For by her activity the machinations of her foes were promptly shown up and extinguished, though one after another new heresies were invented, the earlier ones constantly passing away and disappearing, in different ways at different times, into forms of every shape and character. But the splendour of the Catholic and only true Church, always remaining the same and unchanged, grew steadily in greatness and strength, shedding on every race of Greeks and non-Greeks alike the majestic, spotless, free, sober, pure light of her inspired citizenship and philosophy. Thus the passage of time extinguished the calumnies against the whole of our doctrine, and our teaching remained alone, everywhere victorious and acknowledged as supreme in dignity and sobriety, in divine and philosophic doctrines, so that no one today could dare to subject our Faith to vile abuse or o any such misrepresentation as in the past those who conspired against us were in the habit of doing."
--Eusebius, "The History of the Church (from Christ to Constantine)", pg. 110 (London: Penguin Books, trans. c. 1965, Rev. 1988), trans. G.A. Williamson.
Picture: Reliquary of St. Eusebius
I hope it helps others out there, too. I highly recommend Eusebius' 'History of the Church' as reading material for Lent. It makes me glad I live in modern America. Right now anyway, we can not be persecuted like Catholics were in the first 3 centuries after the Pentecost.
"But this propaganda brought...no lasting success, for Truth asserted herself, and with the march of time shone with increasing light. For by her activity the machinations of her foes were promptly shown up and extinguished, though one after another new heresies were invented, the earlier ones constantly passing away and disappearing, in different ways at different times, into forms of every shape and character. But the splendour of the Catholic and only true Church, always remaining the same and unchanged, grew steadily in greatness and strength, shedding on every race of Greeks and non-Greeks alike the majestic, spotless, free, sober, pure light of her inspired citizenship and philosophy. Thus the passage of time extinguished the calumnies against the whole of our doctrine, and our teaching remained alone, everywhere victorious and acknowledged as supreme in dignity and sobriety, in divine and philosophic doctrines, so that no one today could dare to subject our Faith to vile abuse or o any such misrepresentation as in the past those who conspired against us were in the habit of doing."--Eusebius, "The History of the Church (from Christ to Constantine)", pg. 110 (London: Penguin Books, trans. c. 1965, Rev. 1988), trans. G.A. Williamson.
Picture: Reliquary of St. Eusebius
Tuesday, February 16, 2010
Lent and Ash Wednesday
Don't forget to go to Ash Wednesday Mass or Service tomorrow. It is a wonderful part of the Church season of Lent. It reminds us that this is our temporary home and that we are meant to be with Our Lord Jesus Christ in Heaven someday.
If you would like to do some reading on Ash Wednesday and Lent, please see the following:
On the traditions of Ash Wednesday:
http://www.fisheaters.com/customslent2.html
http://www.catholicculture.org/culture/liturgicalyear/calendar/day.cfm?date=2010-02-17
Catholic Encyclopedia on Lent: http://www.newadvent.org/cathen/09152a.htm
Meaning of Lent: http://www.catholiceducation.org/articles/religion/re0527.html
I found a terrific article on Lent and the Catholic traditions, such as fasting and abstinence: http://www.catholicbible101.com/lentenfasting.htm
Why do Catholics Abstain? Go here: http://www.cuf.org/Faithfacts/details_view.asp?ffID=61
Beyond Lent (from a friend's blog): http://cathapol.blogspot.com/2006/03/fasting-and-lent.html
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Saturday, February 13, 2010
Women and Friends
Dear Reader,
I had a terrific time at the Oklahoma Catholic Women's Conference. I was happy to hear that although Oklahoma has one of the relatively lowest percentages of Catholics in its state, but we have one of the largest Catholic Women's conferences. There were over 750 women there! Praise the Lord. I enjoyed the fellowship with all the women I talked to. Teresa Tomeo was my favorite speaker. She is a true women's libber. The Church has been an advocate and champion of women and women's rights from the beginning of her existence and Teresa gave us a lot of spiritual weaponry on the score. Speaking of spiritual weapons, Elizabeth Ficocelli's presentation on many of the Marian apparitions of the last 200 years, gave us many pointers on the spiritual weapons we could use today for the health of the world. More on that later...
I enjoyed the spirituality of the conference. I got to confession and got some things off my chest. I talked to some lovely women I hadn't seen in a very long time. Hi, Joanne!! Hi, Joelle!! Hi, Jane!! It was really great seeing you. (How come they all start with J? Hmmmm. Interesting)
Then I thought of others I consider(ed) friends. Why are so many women hard on other women? We need each other and can help each other. Why do women always feel that other women are competing with them? I wish women could always be supportive of each other and were willing to support each other no matter what. But, if wishes were horses.... Even when I show support for my 'friends', I feel that I am being suspected of competing. We do have a lot in common, but we also have a lot that is definitely not in common. I don't need to compete.
There have been sooo many times that I have been alone in searching for and getting help and resources for homeschooling, only to come to find out many 'friends' already knew those things. Why does it have to always be such a lonely pursuit? There have been many times where I've given someone advice and they just blow me off and do it the hard way, anyway. I've taken advice from others, some has been good and some not so good. But, I listen and take it into consideration. One of the reasons I started this blog was to try to help others. I plan to get back to that pursuit. If I help one homeschool mom, or one mother, or one woman who wants to be a friend in just one aspect of their life, I will have succeeded.
God bless all women and mothers, everywhere.
"Discard not an old friend, for the new one cannot equal [her]. A new friend is like new wine which you drink with pleasure only when it has aged....As best you can, take your neighbors' measure and associate with the wise. With the learned to be intimate; let all your conversation be about the law of the Lord. Have just [women] for your table companions; in the fear of God be your glory." (Sirach 9:10, 14-16)
I had a terrific time at the Oklahoma Catholic Women's Conference. I was happy to hear that although Oklahoma has one of the relatively lowest percentages of Catholics in its state, but we have one of the largest Catholic Women's conferences. There were over 750 women there! Praise the Lord. I enjoyed the fellowship with all the women I talked to. Teresa Tomeo was my favorite speaker. She is a true women's libber. The Church has been an advocate and champion of women and women's rights from the beginning of her existence and Teresa gave us a lot of spiritual weaponry on the score. Speaking of spiritual weapons, Elizabeth Ficocelli's presentation on many of the Marian apparitions of the last 200 years, gave us many pointers on the spiritual weapons we could use today for the health of the world. More on that later...
I enjoyed the spirituality of the conference. I got to confession and got some things off my chest. I talked to some lovely women I hadn't seen in a very long time. Hi, Joanne!! Hi, Joelle!! Hi, Jane!! It was really great seeing you. (How come they all start with J? Hmmmm. Interesting)
Then I thought of others I consider(ed) friends. Why are so many women hard on other women? We need each other and can help each other. Why do women always feel that other women are competing with them? I wish women could always be supportive of each other and were willing to support each other no matter what. But, if wishes were horses.... Even when I show support for my 'friends', I feel that I am being suspected of competing. We do have a lot in common, but we also have a lot that is definitely not in common. I don't need to compete.
There have been sooo many times that I have been alone in searching for and getting help and resources for homeschooling, only to come to find out many 'friends' already knew those things. Why does it have to always be such a lonely pursuit? There have been many times where I've given someone advice and they just blow me off and do it the hard way, anyway. I've taken advice from others, some has been good and some not so good. But, I listen and take it into consideration. One of the reasons I started this blog was to try to help others. I plan to get back to that pursuit. If I help one homeschool mom, or one mother, or one woman who wants to be a friend in just one aspect of their life, I will have succeeded.
God bless all women and mothers, everywhere.
"Discard not an old friend, for the new one cannot equal [her]. A new friend is like new wine which you drink with pleasure only when it has aged....As best you can, take your neighbors' measure and associate with the wise. With the learned to be intimate; let all your conversation be about the law of the Lord. Have just [women] for your table companions; in the fear of God be your glory." (Sirach 9:10, 14-16)
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Tuesday, January 12, 2010
Census Bureau alert
2010 Census to Begin
THIS IS PRETTY BASIC ADVICE; BUT, IN TODAY'S TIMES, I CAN SEE IT COULD LEAVE AN OPEN DOOR FOR PASSING OUT YOUR PRIVATE INFORMATION.
WARNING:
2010 Census Cautions from the Better Business Bureau
With the U.S. Census process beginning, the Better Business Bureau (BBB) advises people to be cooperative, but cautious, so as not to become a victim of fraud or identity theft. The first phase of the 2010
U.S. Census is under way as workers have begun verifying the addresses of households across the country. Eventually, more than 140,000 U.S. Census workers will count every person in the United States and will gather information about every person living at each address including name, age, gender, race, and other relevant data.
The big question is - how do you tell the difference between a U.S. Census worker and a con artist?
BBB offers the following advice:
If a U.S. Census worker knocks on your door, they will have a badge, a handheld device, a Census Bureau canvas bag, and a confidentiality notice.
Ask to see their identification and their badge before answering their questions.
However, you should never invite anyone you don't know into your home.
Census workers are currently only knocking on doors to verify address information. Do not give your Social Security number, credit card or banking information to anyone, even if they claim they need it for the U.S. Census.
REMEMBER, NO MATTER WHAT THEY ASK, YOU REALLY ONLY NEED TO TELL THEM HOW MANY PEOPLE LIVE AT YOUR ADDRESS.
While the Census Bureau might ask for basic financial information, such as a salary range, YOU DON'T HAVE TO ANSWER ANYTHING AT ALL ABOUT YOUR FINANCIAL SITUATION. The Census Bureau will not ask for Social Security, bank account, or credit card numbers, nor will employees solicit donations. Any one asking for that information is NOT with the Census Bureau.
AND REMEMBER, THE CENSUS BUREAU HAS DECIDED NOT TO WORK WITH ACORN ON GATHERING THIS INFORMATION. No Acorn worker should approach you saying he/she is with the Census Bureau.
Eventually, census workers may contact you by telephone, mail, or in person at home. However, the Census Bureau will not contact you by Email, so be on the lookout for Email scams impersonating the Census.
Never click on a link or open any attachments in an Email that are supposedly from the U.S. Census Bureau.
For more advice on avoiding identity theft and fraud, visitwww.bbb.org
PLEASE SHARE THIS INFO WITH FAMILY AND FRIENDS.
THIS IS PRETTY BASIC ADVICE; BUT, IN TODAY'S TIMES, I CAN SEE IT COULD LEAVE AN OPEN DOOR FOR PASSING OUT YOUR PRIVATE INFORMATION.
WARNING:
2010 Census Cautions from the Better Business Bureau
With the U.S. Census process beginning, the Better Business Bureau (BBB) advises people to be cooperative, but cautious, so as not to become a victim of fraud or identity theft. The first phase of the 2010
U.S. Census is under way as workers have begun verifying the addresses of households across the country. Eventually, more than 140,000 U.S. Census workers will count every person in the United States and will gather information about every person living at each address including name, age, gender, race, and other relevant data.
The big question is - how do you tell the difference between a U.S. Census worker and a con artist?
BBB offers the following advice:
If a U.S. Census worker knocks on your door, they will have a badge, a handheld device, a Census Bureau canvas bag, and a confidentiality notice.
Ask to see their identification and their badge before answering their questions.
However, you should never invite anyone you don't know into your home.
Census workers are currently only knocking on doors to verify address information. Do not give your Social Security number, credit card or banking information to anyone, even if they claim they need it for the U.S. Census.
REMEMBER, NO MATTER WHAT THEY ASK, YOU REALLY ONLY NEED TO TELL THEM HOW MANY PEOPLE LIVE AT YOUR ADDRESS.
While the Census Bureau might ask for basic financial information, such as a salary range, YOU DON'T HAVE TO ANSWER ANYTHING AT ALL ABOUT YOUR FINANCIAL SITUATION. The Census Bureau will not ask for Social Security, bank account, or credit card numbers, nor will employees solicit donations. Any one asking for that information is NOT with the Census Bureau.
AND REMEMBER, THE CENSUS BUREAU HAS DECIDED NOT TO WORK WITH ACORN ON GATHERING THIS INFORMATION. No Acorn worker should approach you saying he/she is with the Census Bureau.
Eventually, census workers may contact you by telephone, mail, or in person at home. However, the Census Bureau will not contact you by Email, so be on the lookout for Email scams impersonating the Census.
Never click on a link or open any attachments in an Email that are supposedly from the U.S. Census Bureau.
For more advice on avoiding identity theft and fraud, visit
PLEASE SHARE THIS INFO WITH FAMILY AND FRIENDS.
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